{"id":22813,"date":"2023-03-28T12:19:19","date_gmt":"2023-03-28T12:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/?p=22813"},"modified":"2023-06-23T13:33:30","modified_gmt":"2023-06-23T13:33:30","slug":"how-to-achieve-your-potential-by-treating-social-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/articles\/how-to-achieve-your-potential-by-treating-social-anxiety\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Achieve Your Potential by Treating Social Anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_22814\" style=\"width: 730px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-22814\" itemprop=\"image\" class=\"wp-image-22814 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/image1-1.jpg\" alt=\"Don't Panic\" width=\"720\" height=\"406\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-22814\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/U0wwiY6nRGA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">unsplash<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Social anxiety disorder can often be debilitating. Despite the havoc it can wreak on a person\u2019s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">life, treating social anxiety can feel impossible. If you\u2019re currently experiencing social anxiety, you\u2019re not alone. There are plenty of people like you who need help overcoming this disorder.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, the thought of treating anxiety seems like a monstrous task. It\u2019s not easy to rewire your brain, but know that it isn\u2019t trying to hurt you. It\u2019s trying to protect you against threats, no matter how small they may be. Giving yourself some patience and love will go a long way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But what can you get from beating this beast? As it turns out, a lot. Since a large chunk of our society revolves around social interactions, social anxiety can cause you to miss out on life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly, it can stop you from reaching your true potential, but it doesn\u2019t have to be this way. There are plenty of things you can do to slowly but surely overcome your social anxiety.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this article, we\u2019ll examine what social anxiety is and how it impacts your life and the choices you make. Then, we\u2019ll offer suggestions on what you can do to treat social anxiety disorder.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>What is Social Anxiety?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Social anxiety disorder is an intense and persistent fear that <a href=\"https:\/\/healthspot.net\/scopophobia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">other people are watching<\/a> and judging you. This disorder <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dovepress.com\/social-anxiety-disorder-a-review-of-environmental-risk-factors-peer-reviewed-fulltext-article-NDT\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">affects 12% of the population<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Social anxiety isn\u2019t just classified as introversion or shyness, as fear or intense anxiety must be present to get a diagnosis.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, the fear people experience with social anxiety disorder when thinking about or interacting in social situations is so intense that it feels beyond their control. If a person is incredibly anxious about an event, they may worry about it weeks before it actually happens.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The signs and symptoms of a social anxiety disorder include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span data-sheets-value=\"{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;Trembling, sweating\/sweaty hands, or blushing before or during conversations&quot;}\" data-sheets-userformat=\"{&quot;2&quot;:769,&quot;3&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:0},&quot;11&quot;:4,&quot;12&quot;:0}\" data-sheets-textstyleruns=\"{&quot;1&quot;:0}\uee10{&quot;1&quot;:20,&quot;2&quot;:{&quot;5&quot;:1}}\uee10{&quot;1&quot;:32}\">Trembling, sweating\/<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sweaty-palms.com\/sweaty_palms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sweaty hands<\/a>, or blushing before or during conversations<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMind blanking,\u201d sudden nausea, or light-headedness<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finding it difficult to be around people, even when you want to<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hyper-awareness of body language and speech volume<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoidance of places where there are other people<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, a person may experience an underlying health condition that makes social anxiety worse. They may also develop another condition due to their social anxiety symptoms.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><script src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\" async=\"\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display: block; text-align: center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-4560705956205775\" data-ad-slot=\"9135581814\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>How Social Anxiety Can Impact More Than Your Social Life<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s clear that social anxiety would cause you to limit contact with other people. If you\u2019re afraid something bad will happen, then you\u2019ll become nervous around people or avoid them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A person with social anxiety disorder may avoid or feel fear when doing the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Answering a question in front of their class<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Speaking to employees in a shop<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Going to job interviews<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eating and drinking in front of others<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using the public restroom<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making new friends or going on dates<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In some cases, a person may experience performance-related anxiety, which has similar symptoms to social anxiety disorder. They may or may not feel anxiety in social situations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But when you have social anxiety, you\u2019re missing out on more than just direct social interactions. When you leave the house, you inevitably run into other people. And even when you try to avoid social interactions as much as possible, there\u2019s going to be a point where you need others. At the very least, you\u2019ll have to surround yourself with other people in order to complete a task.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Say you want to study for your chartered financial analyst (CFA) Level 1 exam. While <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/crushthefinancialanalystexam.com\/how-to-pass-cfa-level-1\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">preparing for the exam<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019re allowed to use online studying materials. Unless you meet specific vendor requirements, you can\u2019t take the text online. That means you\u2019ll have to take the test in person.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you decide not to do this because of your social anxiety, you would have missed out on getting certified. This could have long-lasting consequences on your career and your future finances.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In other words, social anxiety can control your life, and so much of that life is dictated by interacting or being around people. If you want to reach your potential, you need to treat it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Treating Social Anxiety: 10 Things You Can Try<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Treating social anxiety can be a long process, but it\u2019s worth it. After treatment, you\u2019ll have what you need to reach your potential. When you feel ready to tackle your anxiety, use these tips.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><strong>1. Research What you Can About Anxiety<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to start treating social anxiety disorder, you\u2019ll need to understand it. Start learning about how anxiety impacts the brain, what symptoms it causes, and your treatment options.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/nationalsocialanxietycenter.com\/resources\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">National Social Anxiety Cente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">r has plenty of great resources you can use to start treating your disorder. If you prefer to get your information out of books, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.aboutsocialanxiety.com\/social-anxiety-books\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">check out this social anxiety books list<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Want to listen to your media? <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/reviews\/apps-for-anxiety#recap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is a great list for social anxiety disorder podcasts<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>2. Learn How to Set Healthy Boundaries<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you want to be a super social <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/articles\/supervisory-skills\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">supervisor<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or an independent software engineer, you need to learn to set boundaries. Boundaries are necessary to create trusting relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many people have social anxiety because they had a negative past experience when socializing. Learning when to say \u201cyes\u201d and \u201cno\u201d can help you feel more in control of your life. With this confidence, you can start building a friend group that supports you, not hurts you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>3. Speak to a Therapist (or Ask for Help)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The process of treating social anxiety disorder can feel like scaling a mountain when you don\u2019t have help. If you have the means, please speak to a therapist or family doctor for help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t, that\u2019s okay and it isn\u2019t your fault. Healthcare is expensive and not always accessible or accepting of everyone. You can still seek help through in-person and online support groups. For example, the ADAA has plenty of resources that are POC and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/adaa.org\/find-help\/by-demographics\/lgbtq\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">LGBTQ+ inclusive<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><script src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\" async=\"\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display: block; text-align: center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-4560705956205775\" data-ad-slot=\"9135581814\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>4. Set Goals and Give Yourself Rewards<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you\u2019re treating social anxiety or improving your physical fitness, it\u2019s a good idea to set goals. Goals can help you feel motivated, but only if you get a reward after reaching them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s say you want to participate in a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/articles\/5-important-reasons-why-teamwork-matters\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">teamwork seminar<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> at your workplace. When you reach that goal, pat yourself on the back and indulge in something you love. Don\u2019t feel pressured to jump into socializing right away. If you go slow, you\u2019re more likely to overcome your fears in the long term.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>5. Practice Social Skills in a Safe Environment\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eventually, you will have to challenge yourself, but you don\u2019t have to rip the band-aid off. The act of challenging yourself could mean practicing your social skills with a person you know.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If that\u2019s too easy, then branch out to an online space. It\u2019s less intimidating to speak to online strangers, even on the phone. If you felt you did or said something embarrassing, you can leave that community. Or, better yet, you can practice persevering despite that small social hiccup.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>6. Embrace and Look Forward to \u201cAlone Time\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many people with social anxiety disorder also happen to be introverted. This means they recharge their social batteries by being alone or spending time away from other people.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this sounds like you, consider looking forward to alone time. Humans, introverted or otherwise, need time alone for mental wellness. It\u2019s nothing to be ashamed of. Use this time to do things that you love or practice your social skills. You need to feel good in order to make friends.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>7. Focus on Improving Your Physical Health<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Speaking of feeling good, a major part of treating social anxiety involves taking care of your physical health. It\u2019s important to know that <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mentalhealth.org.uk\/explore-mental-health\/a-z-topics\/physical-health-and-mental-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">our physical health can impact our mental health<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The advice to eat better, sleep more, and exercise is clich\u00e9, but for a good reason. Proper diet and nutrition help us sleep better, while a healthy sleep schedule can give us the energy to exercise. When you feel better, you\u2019ll be more willing to put yourself out there and take risks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>8. Keep a Journal to Track Your Improvements<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be hard to see exactly how much you\u2019ve changed until you look back. But we don\u2019t always have the best memory. That\u2019s why you should keep a journal to record your progress.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To make this exercise helpful, record what you thought and how you felt when you tried to do something that triggered your anxiety. A week after you wrote your journal entry, go back to it and assess if your feelings reflected reality. Write another entry about how you feel now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>9. Work on Changing Your Attitude\/Perspective<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The last thing you want to hear when you\u2019re struggling is, \u201cthink more positively,\u201d but that\u2019s not what we\u2019re saying. What we are saying is to take small steps to stop catastrophizing situations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The trick to developing a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/articles\/tips-for-developing-a-positive-mindset\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">more positive mindset<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is breaking down your fears. You\u2019ll want to realistically assess the likelihood of a negative event happening. Then, assess how well you\u2019ll be able to handle it. Ask yourself if these events will <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthline.com\/health-news\/reduce-anxiety-by-practicing-optimism-can-help#2.-Breakdown-your-fears\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">negatively affect everything in your life<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>10. Be Honest When You\u2019re Feeling Nervous<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Admitting to others that you\u2019re feeling nervous isn\u2019t a mark of failure. In fact, feeling anxious is a clear sign that what you\u2019re doing matters to you. In many situations, it\u2019s okay to be honest here.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Public speaking is one of the most common human fears. Some experts estimate that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dovepress.com\/assessing-public-speaking-fear-with-the-short-form-of-the-personal-rep-peer-reviewed-fulltext-article-NDT\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">77% of people have some level of anxiety about speaking in public<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you tell the other person you\u2019re nervous, they\u2019ll likely feel better. After all, they\u2019re probably nervous about meeting you, too!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><script src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\" async=\"\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display: block; text-align: center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-4560705956205775\" data-ad-slot=\"9135581814\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><strong>\u00a0Wrapping Up<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By treating social anxiety disorder, you can reach your full potential, but no one said it\u2019s going to be easy. With that said, it\u2019s absolutely worth it. If you need help, speak to experts and stay around people who support you. Trust yourself that you\u2019ll get through this, little by little.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Social anxiety disorder can often be debilitating. Despite the havoc it can wreak on a person\u2019s life, treating social anxiety can feel impossible. If you\u2019re currently experiencing social anxiety, you\u2019re not alone. There are plenty of people like you who need help overcoming this disorder.\u00a0 Sometimes, the thought of treating anxiety seems like a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":46,"featured_media":22814,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,153,21,159],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articles","category-empower","category-leadership-management-interpersonal-skills","category-wellbeing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22813","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/46"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22813"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22813\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23077,"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22813\/revisions\/23077"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22814"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22813"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22813"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.potential.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22813"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}